2017 = stop wasting their time! Stop trying to be a savage, stop trying to be a player, and stop wasting time. There are relationships where one of the partners wants to get married and the other doesn’t. Sometimes these people aren’t honest with each other or true to themselves, and just keep holding on to nothing.
The main thing here is to just be honest. If you are with someone and you do not want to marry them you should move on. Let them be free to find the person they are supposed to be with.
People often end up with “baby mommas and baby daddys” when they aren’t honest with themselves and the person they are with.
There are good women and men wasting time, effort, and resources on people that just do not want to be in a marriage. If you don’t want to be married it’s ok and it’s your decision but also let the person you are with know and make sure they understand your stance on the situation up front. Lots of times people get too attached in the beginning and they ignore the signs that they are with someone that does not want to be married.